WOMEN WHO LOVES TOO MUCH
Source:By Robin Norwood (Psychiatrist)
Women who love too much are seeking the love that eluded them when they were children, either one or both parents were unavailable to them. The unavailability may have been due to parental personality problems, alcoholism , domestic violence or any other problems that interfered with parenting.
These women pursue men who will never make them feel happy.”Nice guys” does not fit the pattern of their past experiences so they fall for the wrong ones. The reason for their unhappiness is that they are forever pursuing love from someone who cannot or will not gratify their needs and wants .
In fact, some of the men they pursue are abusive, rejecting, cold, distant, sadistic, ungiving and emotionally unresponsive. Some of these men even make themselves physically unavailable for weeks or months under one pretense or another. Yet, the woman continues to pursue.
WHY CERTAIN WOMEN ALWAYS SEEM TO FALL FOR THE WRONG TYPE OF GUY?
Source:Jaelin K Reece (Life Coach)
It is a matter of recognizing the pattern that you are following and the pattern is set during childhood. See in general. What were these men like emotionally? What attracted you to them? For example, if you are always choosing men that cheats on you. Ask yourself, Is there some part of you that is unwilling to commit?
You may believe that even if you do fall in love, you are destined to jinx the relationship, or be abandoned, or be terribly hurt.
You may fear the conflict of change and have a tough time,same as the one you had experienced seeing your parents separate.
Children of divorced parents often bitterly vow not to repeat the same mistakes. They want to avoid putting themselves and their own children through the same pain.
WOMEN WHO LOVE TOO MUCH
Women who love too much are those who give too many second chances.
Women who love too much are those who hold on to irrational hope that things will change or get better, even after years of progressive decline of the relationship.
Women who love too much are women who will keep giving and giving, without getting not nearly half in return.
Women who love too much are women who give up on searching a personal meaning for their life, whose main job is to build a pedestal for the relationship and their man.
THESE WOMEN MUST LEARN TO LOVE THEMSELVES FIRSTLY MORE THAN LOVING OTHERS!